These are the rants and ravings of a
melancholic
40 something polyamorous genderfluid bisexual who is far too stressed for this shit. pronouns: E, Ey, Em, Eir, Emself. Mre. ("Mystery"). Secretly Birb. I block and report all porn blogs as spam. So don't follow me if you are one.
It’s vital that young trans people understand that they can have a future
not can, do and will. it shouldn’t be a “maybe”, because it’s not. It’s a definite thing - young trans people **have** a future, and we need to guide and lead them into it with open hearts and open minds
For anybody doubting this - please look at this photobook of older trans adults, who have not only survived, but thrived. You do have a future. You just have to believe in yourself.
You can be at different points in your relationships!
You may have a husband with whom you’re ready to have kids and a boyfriend with whom you haven’t even gotten sexual!
You may have 2 girlfriends and only have told one “I love you!”
Unless you all started dating at the exact same time, then you aren’t in the same point with both/all of your partners!!!
And even if you did all start dating at the exact same time, different relationships are different, and that’s okay too! You can feel differently about different people but still cherish all of them and make them feel special about the unique things that you share.
doctors performing c sections during births without informed consent
eugenics via sterilization requirements for trans people to change documentation
eugenics via forced/nonconsenting sterilization of disabled people
eugenics via forced/nonconsenting sterilization of people of color
eugenics via selective abortion of disabled fetuses (fetuses with Down syndrome especially) (these are abortions sought by people who WANT to be pregnant–but only with non-disabled children, when there’s absolutely no guarantee that a non-disabled child won’t become disabled)
if your reproductive rights activism doesn’t incorporate ALL OF THE ABOVE, i want no part of it.
idk
why women in action movies are still getting forced into skintight
suits and high heeled boots when sigourney weaver proved nearly 40 years
ago in alien (1979) that the hottest thing in cinema is buff ladies in tank tops
broke: women in clothes that show off their boobs and/or ass
WOKE: women in sleeveless tops that show off their huge muscular arms